Pseudo Free Agent:
- General Characteristics – He thinks he’s a Free Agent, but he’s not. The telltale sign is possessiveness. A real Free Agent doesn’t care who you’re seeing besides him, but the Pseudo Free Agent wants you to be loyal to him, while he continues to shop around. Plus, a real Free Agent won’t play games; he’ll tell you the deal up front. But with the Pseudo Free Agent, you won’t find out the deal until after an initial rabbit dance or two.
- Found in – All around.
- Relations after Marriage – Not real likely to get married anytime soon, but later in life if they do.
- Fidelity – Not into that so much. Unless… He has a real paradigm shift that moves him from would-be player to a Good Man. But he’s told the ladies so often that his player days are behind him, that even he doesn’t know the truth of the matter anymore. So, you best see it, before you believe it.
- Finances – Not the best, but he does save money on dating, since he’s rarely going in his pocket for you.
- Chances – Good, but do you really want to make someone a priority, who views you as a Tuesday night option.
- Future prospects – He’ll settle down someday, but it won’t be with one of his “options” from back in the day. He’ll want a clean slate, and that might be best for all concerned.
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