A Woman's Field Guide to Men: Sugar Daddy

Sugar Daddy:

-         General Characteristics – Older gentleman, with money in his pocket looking for a “sweet young thang” to spend it on.  Also, commonly known as an old fool. But let us not judge too quickly. These old guys know the deal, and to them it’s worth the price of admission. They hope that you’ll stay around, if or when they get old or sick, but they know there’s a good chance you won’t. Also, consider Sugar Daddies are men who’ve been successful in their chosen profession, so they’re far more likely to help you get yours, than to hold you back.

-         Found in – Behind the counter of the store they own, hanging out at the coffee shop (all day, every day) and your local Commerce Club (or whatever you call it in your town). 

-         Relations after Marriage – Pretty much the same as your dating life, but less going out as they age (although, he’ll fund your going out, be it Macy’s or Paris). But here’s the thing, if you’re marrying a guy 20+ years older than you, then expect to be there when his health declines. And while this guy will likely have the financial responsibilities of his care covered, there’s still the issue of the personal attention an ailing spouse requires. In most of the world this is understood, but in western culture, not so much anymore.

-         Fidelity – Extremely good.

-         Finances – Very good, although healthcare costs/premiums may eventually dent your style just a bit. See if he’ll agree to move to Europe, then you’re set, and the culture there is much more supportive of such arrangements and they have free healthcare.

-         Chances – Well, the game is changing. With the advent of certain medications, these gentlemen have a little more, leverage. But assuming he does want to get married, the trend is that more and more of these men are connecting with immigrants of varying ethnic backgrounds. In many of these cultures a wealthy man, with a younger woman is common and expected. So, don’t enter the relationship like you’re doing ol’ boy a favor. He’s got money, so he’s got options.

-         Future prospects – Things aren’t like they used to be for these gentlemen (see my blog Death of the Sugar Daddy), but there are still enough women looking for Mr. Big Stuff, that’ll he’ll be alright.